The writer Nyanaponika Thera, writes of two
ways of practicing these immeasurables, “...there are two ways of developing
the sublime states: first by practical conduct and an appropriate direction of
thought; and second by methodical meditation aiming at the absorptions.” I have
chosen to focus this entry around the initial: the practical conduct, and the
appropriate direction of thought about these messages. This is because, I feel
that in order to truly express how something such as a deep meditation about a
concept has affected me, I would have to do so over a sustained period of time.
Of which, I may choose to write about later.
The first immeasurable, is loving-kindness.
Some have argued that this one is the most important. What is loving-kindness? It
is put simply by Ven Sangye Khadro, as "...a genuine feeling of caring and
respect for others. We wish them to be happy and to have whatever they need for
a healthy, satisfying life...," What makes this inherently different from a
normal love emotion, or an average projection of kindness, is that it is meant
to include all beings. Only then,
can it be considered befitting of an "immeasurable," and only then,
will it actually be exceeding the confines of your average thought.
As I was looking through numerous sources, in
my quest for more information about this, I felt this idea was most potently
stated in the Metta Sutta. "Metta," meaning loving-kindness
and "Sutta," meaning a discourse of the Buddha:
This is what
should be done by one who is skilled in goodness
And who knows the
path of peace:
Let them be able
and upright, straightforward and gentle in speech,
Humble and not
conceited, contented and easily satisfied.
Unburdened with
duties and frugal in their ways.
Peaceful and calm,
and wise and skilful,
not proud and
demanding in nature.
Let them not do
the slightest thing that the wise would later reprove. They should wish:
In gladness and in
safety
May all beings be
at ease.
Whatever living
beings there may be,
Whether they are
weak or strong, omitting none,
The great or the
mighty, medium, short or small,
The seen and the
unseen,
Those living near
and far away,
Those born and
to-be-born,
May all beings be
at ease!
Let none deceive
another, or despise any being in any state,
Let none through
anger or ill-will wish harm upon another.
Even as a mother
protects with her life her child, her only child,
So with a boundless heart
should one cherish all living beings, Radiating kindness over the entire world,
Spreading upwards to the skies, and downwards to the depths,
Outwards and
unbounded, freed from hatred and ill-will.
Whether standing or walking, seated or lying down,
Free from
drowsiness, one should sustain this recollection.
The
second immeasurable that follows this message, is compassion. We all know what
compassion is, but what makes it an "immeasurable" concept? It is the
wishing for all beings to be free
from their suffering, beyond the people that you know. It is considered an
immeasurable in Buddhism by including, not only, those people that you might
not know, but also those that you may never get to know. This is what makes it
different from an average amount of compassion. It is important to remember
this, as the Dalai Lama has said, "Compassion and love are not mere
luxuries. As the source both of inner and external peace, they are fundamental
to the continued survival of our species."
The
third, is sympathetic joy (sometimes called "appreciative joy"). It
is the grand antidote to torrid jealousy, and a natural cure for envy. This is
something that I have personally struggled with many times over, as we all want
certain things that others already have.
The definition is:
being happy with someone's fortune/happiness. Sympathetic joy here refers to
the potential of bliss and happiness of all
sentient beings, as they can all become Buddhas.
The near enemy is
hypocrisy or affectation.
The opposite is jealousy, when one cannot accept the happiness of
others. (Harderwijk)
The
final of these ideas, is a very important lesson, called equanimity. It is the
idea of treating and thinking of all
other beings as your equal, without feeling indifferent toward them- even
during a heated argument, and with this I agree:
It enables us to overcome bias and prejudice in
our responses to others and functions as an antidote to pride and partiality.
As the Buddha taught, pride often occupies center stage in the workings of the
ego-self because of our inherent belief that we are more important or more
valuable than others. Because of pride, we are likely to feel hostile toward
those who seem to threaten our sense of importance. (Hodge)
Sarah
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